If you’re dominant, bondage is about taking over and being the one in control; and if you are submissive, it is about taking down your guard. Bondage may play a key role in the BDSM scene or in sex training. It imparts a sense of powerlessness to abound partner who is playing the slave. Having this sense of powerlessness often turns on many people who feel excited by the thought that their body is at the mercy of the other person who can do what they want. For some, it’s a soothing emotional release, while others fight and strain to experience the lack of control. This is an individualized response that depends on the person in bondage. Bondage through BDSM knots is a versatile tool in the hands of the masterful dominator.
You may be a fan of Mallory Knots, who plays these scenes with élan. Don’t worry; you can do it too, and learn how to tie knots. With a fundamental understanding of ropes, decent creativity, security procedures, and a few BDSM knots, pleasurable outcomes in knots for BDSM can be obtained. So, learn the fundamentals of how to tie BDSM knots.
In addition, by utilizing synthetic arm and ankles straps, you can achieve effective general bondage. It’s a lot smoother and is said to be almost as effective as BDSM rope knots. It also needs less competence, which is why it’s better for rookies.
Here are some simple BDSM knots that you can achieve with some rope.
Square Knot: This is a common knot that you can use to join together the two ends of a single rope, two ropes, or even two separate ropes. The knot is very much smoother than some other kinds of knots and adds less friction to the body.
French Bowline Knot: Since it ensures the absence of tightening and the resultant stopping of blood circulation, many experts consider this a good option for binding hands and feet. Use a 3/8 inch or a 5/16 inch rope for tying limbs.
Slipping Reef Knot: You should follow the same method to do these as you would a square knot, except you fold a loop at the left end of the rope after stage one in the case of a square knot. And keep trying it like the square bondage knots. The advantage of this knot is that it offers a swift escape.
You can never ensure full protection in case of bondage. The maximum you can do is take the proper security precautions to reduce the risks as much as possible. Decide beforehand what are the things that you and your partner wish to do during your ‘play.’
Throughout submission sequences involving bondage, the dominant partner is responsible for taking care of the submissive partner. There may be circulation issues or trouble with being able to breathe properly. Keep in mind that a shortage of oxygen is not the only sign you should be looking out for; your sub may be having hyperventilation, which calls for intervention, as in slowing down or stopping and removing the knots for BDSM. Be absolutely sure that the ropes can be cut quickly and easily; this ensures the physical and emotional safety of your ‘slave.’ Keep bandage scissors within easy reach at all times. Have a clear idea of the BDSM knots you plan to do, and practice tying and untying them a few times beforehand.
Types of Ropes
Types of ropes that can help with tying BDSM rope knots during your ‘play’ if you are trying to emulate Mallory Knots:
Nylon rope: This is a decent rope that you can use for bondage knots and that many people recommend. It is solid, lightweight, normally convenient, and can be easily untied. The endings detach very quickly. The braided type is better than the woven type; it is cleaner and does not damage the skin.
Cotton rope: This is soft to touch but is not accepted widely by bondage experts. This is because the core is susceptible to holding moisture, which results in germ and bacteria growth over time; it is also not sturdy or firm enough. Another reason is, after you have tied BDSM knots in a cotton rope, they are difficult to unfasten.
Parachute rope: This is affordable, sturdy, and comes in a multitude of colors. However, experts advise against its use if the purpose is bondage.
Hemp rope: A common choice for BDSM enthusiasts in the hemp rope. In its fresh condition, it is scruffy and stiff. It gives a scratchy feeling when new, also more difficult to untie. It gets smoother after multiple cleanings.
