In sex, as in war, everything means are good for an end. Even those that polite people are calling the harsh word “perversion.”
Japanese Bondage Meaning in BDSM
So, bondage, or the ancient Japanese art of tying – kimbaku or as it is more often called now – shibari. Unlike Western tying fetishists who often use handcuffs or leather belts, Japanese BDSM masters almost always use only ropes.
Partly explaining this by the fact that the erotic action of the coil and the knot is different! A coil (or several coils) affects the entire erogenous zone, and the knot acts on a biologically active point.
Tying is not as painful as most people think. Good and soft (cotton or hemp) ropes, specially treated, don’t leave marks nor damage your skin. It is then very pleasant when soft ropes dig into the body – over time, and people begin to feel the “taste of the rope” through their skin. In Europe, the most important thing in BDSM is to reach the critical point of pain, at which a natural drug, beta-endorphin, begins to be released in the human body.
Many people have probably read or heard stories about the near-death orgasms experienced by the hanged? This is how the body protects itself from the pain. In Japan, a person is tied up in order to liberate them so that he or she loses control and cannot move. Japanese bondage fetish allows you to reveal the secret that sits in each person, gives the opportunity to relax.
Basic Forms of Japanese Bondage
- Shinju
- Sakuranbo
- Karada
- Kotori
- Minimum bondage
- Asymmetric bondage
Japanese shibari masters attach great importance to tying. The most important thing they consider is to find the “correct ropes,” that is, to “pick up the keys” to the spiritual world of the person being tied.
For example, a Japanese master, starting to bind a woman’s breasts and hands, simultaneously massages important points on her body that help her relax. From this, the woman will inevitably begin to moan from the double pleasure received.
In contemporary Japanese bondage (shibari), the central figure is the master, an artist who wraps an intricate rope pattern around his model. Of course, the culmination is the suspension, which in the west, because of its extreme danger, only a few are at risk. Hanging is also inevitable in Japanese bondage.
Hanging is one of the main techniques of the Japanese tying technique. In addition to the aesthetic effect, the suspension allows you to focus more fully on the sensations caused by the restraints. When hanging, they must be pulled together, removed, as far as possible, panties must be left in advance by the master.
Hold Me Up, Tie Me Down
Shibari masters claim that women are divided into two types – female daughters and female mothers. When in Japanese bondage, the first type always subconsciously looks for a father in a lover, who will take care of them, pamper and punish, in a word, take responsibility for their existence, pleasure. And imagine the suffering of the second type of woman who is forced to warm another sissy on their breasts? Well, depends on your tastes, of course, and personality.
Speaking of the Japanese art of VD (binding), one cannot fail to mention wax. Candle wax dripping on certain areas of the body, such as the breasts or pubis, draws a woman’s attention to that area. Wax is usually used after a woman has been tied for a long time, mainly for “refreshing the senses.”
Usually, a few drops are enough to get the desired effect. Often, both for focusing attention on any part of the body and for aesthetic reasons, wax drawings are created on a woman’s body, drop by drop. Of course, this requires a steady hand and some experience.
Since the sexual use of the rope belongs to a secret, “underground” sphere, the relationship between the artist and his model is usually deep and erotic. If we remember how long it takes both to create the harness and remove it, it becomes clear why, thanks to the rope, we can experience such powerful sensual and erotic experiences.
Today, with many striving to master the technique, it is all too easy to lose intimacy and emotional depth.
